Starting Marriage Right Quiz

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Starting Marriage Right Quiz - Choose the answer that most applies to you, your partner or both of you. At the end your score will be tallied with your results and you will receive a free gift! Either myself, my partner, or both of us:


Is trying to change the other person to fit what they want, instead of accepting them for who they are

Wants to rescue or "help" the other because they see their potential or wants the other person to make their "sad" life better.

Appreciates the things they have in common yet are frustrated by several of their differences.

Is unclear about their needs, wants, and requirements (deal-breakers) in the relationship

Reacts to frustration with anger, rage, blame, and directs it towards the other person.

Blames others or circumstances for life situation.

Tries to control everything and everyone.

Doesn't seek out interaction or connection with the other on a daily basis.

Is emotionally distant or void, and withdrawn.

Is still pining for a past relationship.

Seems to be more committed to being "right" vs. trying to resolve a conflict.

Is pessimistic and negative about things that matter to the other.

Lacks integrity in dealing with people, money, etc.

Has a judgmental attitude towards themselves and others.

Is unwilling to self-examine, accept feedback, take personal responsibility and ownership.

Has a challenge keeping agreements.

Has recurring out of control emotional upsets.

Feels this isn't what they really want, but doesn't want to be along.

Seems to have an inability to listen and engage in authentic, honest communication.

Is unhappy with the level of and/or frequency of physical intimacy in the relationship.