5 Steps You Can Take Right Now to Living Your Own Happily-Ever-After
We all have a “story” about relationship. This “Once Upon a Time” tale begins with the relationship with our family and carries into every relationship we have from then on. Things happen in our early family experience. We interpret those events and create stories about ourselves and our world. These stories become part of our belief system and become the lens through which we see our world. They can often interfere with having our ideal life and relationships. Some of these stories may sound familiar. “I’m not good enough”, “I’m not loveable”, “all the good men are taken”, “women should just cook and clean”, etc. are some of the common stories or beliefs.
As an Intuitive Relationship Coach, I work with Singles and Couples to help them identify and release their old stories about life and love while creating and living a new and better one. In essence, I teach people to live their own happily-ever-after and make their relationship a “10”.
So, take a look at your relationship or, if you’re single, take a look at your life. How would you rate it on a 1-10 scale?
If your score is 1-7, then chances are there are some old stories getting in the way of your happily-ever-after. So let’s look at 5 steps you can take right now to change your story.
Here are 5 steps to take right now towards living your own happily-ever-after:
1) Recognize that you are the author of your story.
It can sometimes seem like your story is being written for you as we can “ghost-write” a challenging story and not be aware of that.
2) Clarify what your “ideal” would look like.
Many people want things to change but don’t have a clear picture of what they want their life and relationships to look like.
3) Identify the stories/beliefs that you have been carrying.
Look at your current circumstances. How they make you feel can help identify your stories.
4) Get into action
We can “talk” about change but we also need to take action to move the new story forward.
5) Hire a Relationship Coach!
Statistics show that you will be 95% effective in achieving your goal if you write them down, take action, and have someone to support you with accountability.
Are you ready to take action, get support, change your story and learn more secrets to living your own happily-ever-after?
Contact me to get started! 661-252-2944